Additional Client Experiences
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In one of my healing sessions with Selome, one of my intentions was to connect with a spirit guide. During the session, there was a part where I felt like someone was with me and I asked who it was. I realized it was my friend who had passed on, and she was trying to show me something. She told me there were a lot of eyes on me and that’s not a bad thing but a good thing. She said not to worry that I’m going to get what I want in life. She said she knows I will get what I want and will help make sure it happens. I could feel her just hanging out with me the whole session. I asked again if it was her and she said, “You know it’s me.” It felt like an energy and frequency of her and I was making out her words from the energy. I could see images of her, too, and it was as if she was a white floating light. She was coming into my thoughts. I asked her to show me blatant signs of her and she kept showing me butterflies (and I’ve seen them a lot since). She was reassuring me that she was watching over us. I also saw a woman with an African scarf who is guiding me.”
“I felt my father present in the sessions. I could hear him, reassuring me that he was always there. Then my grandmother came. I can feel they are with me. I also heard a message, they said “you’re here to heal your lineage and carry on your lineage”.
A specific example to illustrate healing with a guide who has transitioned includes one client who had some challenges with a grandmother when they were alive, was able to heal things during the sessions in relation to the grandmother, and began to see and feel her grandmother in a different way. During an earlier session, the client had traveled back into a specific memory with her grandmother, and in the memory, saw her grandmother's face as very strict and angry, as she remembered her on occassion. She felt as if she was right there with her grandmother again. After we worked to clear the energy and the pain connected to the relationship, the next time the grandmother appeared in another session, the client saw her grandmothers face again but this time, her grandmother’s face was softer, kinder and even seemed happier, and the energy was lighter. The client was very emotional and was very relieved to have felt this healing with her grandmother's spirit and also to have supported her grandmother’s spirit in being set free from the emotional pain energy that was between them.
"There was a part of my healing session that felt like an exorcism! I felt some kneading and pulling. I felt a knot rolling around in my womb. It felt heavy. Then I became overwhelmed with grief and sorrow. I was trying to fight it because it wasn't comfortable. I didn't want to let go of whatever was moving inside of me. I was fighting back tears, and I started trembling. I couldn't believe how all of a sudden, I was feeling so heavy with pain. I knew what was coming up wasn't all mine, though; it felt like my parents' and ancestors' pain, too. I focused on my breathing and tried to exhale slowly, and more tears came. I was afraid, but I knew I had to let go of whatever I was holding. I felt an ancestor (my mom's spirit) come in and support me through it. I felt hot all over my body. Then I felt something being pulled out of me; I got a message that it was deep, buried old pain and trauma coming out. And then, after some time, I felt relief. I felt high, tired, and drained, but I felt a lightness in my womb. I never knew I could feel so light and open."
One client made significant progress in their connection with spirit and the spirit realm. They released fears of using their mediumship abilities and moved through ancestral persecution trauma and subconscious fears of being punished for their power. They began to trust their guides more tangibly, seeing them not only as supporters but as partners who learn and grow alongside them. One visualization affirmed this relationship: their guides were initially seen following them, and later walking together as equals. The client also experienced profound ancestral healing. They connected with multiple groups of ancestors, who offered support and guidance and confirmed the client’s role as a guide for them. They also received clear messages from their child self and higher self, realizing these aspects of their soul were also guiding them forward. This connection strengthened their sense of purpose and helped them heal familial patterns of self-sabotage, persecution trauma, and guilt around embodying their power.
I met a new spirit guide during one of my sessions with Selome- he had a male energy, somebody that felt very very old. He felt like an older healer. He had on some ceremonial garb and was very energetic. I asked him what I could call him and he told me his name was —-!